Just a few points:
1. Ohio State at least fielded 3 BCS championship teams. They were unprepared for Florida, they played a good game against LSU, and they beat Miami.
2. Ohio State, Michigan, Penn State, etc... are generally in the top 20 recruiting nationally, and the former being in the top 10 pretty much every year.
3. The Big Ten has the largest fan base in the country. Hands down. Not even including Nebraska.
4. Teams like Ohio State and Michigan and whatever pull kids from the South. All the time even. They have multi-million dollar facilities. I really think you just don't quite understand how much money, and how big time football is in the midwest.
5. The reason OSU wasn't in the national championship game last year, was because of the bowl ban. They don't need to "win for 2 years to get to the title game".
6. Texas has had like 2 good seasons in the BCS era.
7. Auburn is a great story. But it doesn't really prove any points.
8. Urban won't go to Alabama. That doesn't make any sense. There are a few schools where, when you get the job, you are there until you quit or you're fired:
Texas
Alabama
LSU
Ohio State
Michigan
USC
Notre Dame
maybe a couple of others are close here like Nebraska or something
But those right there are the powerhouse football schools. Maybe some haven't been winning championships, sure, but they have the largest fan bases, make the most money, and are the most prestigious. You have this weird perception that everything is centered around Florida, but the truth of the matter is that it's just a second tier school, at best.
And Florida had a couple of good years, but the glory days are over now. A 1 loss Ohio State team basically gets a BCS bowl every year because they are a top-tier, top-caliber program. What school has been to the most BCS bowl games?
There's been a lot of turmoil in the Big ten the last few years, and they've been having problems with getting top tier assistants and stuff because of low pay, but now that's changing. Coaching changes are stopping as well. Not to mention the most difficult bowl line-up every year and whatever.
SEC is the best conference, hands down. But you're greatly over exaggerating, and obviously ill-informed about how things are on a national scale.