Children

by **The Dude** » Thu Nov 14, 2013 11:41 pm

Ideally, I'd end up having 1 boy and 1 girl. No more. Three would be my limit. If I ever have a third kid, I'd probably get a vasectomy.

by **Mo~** » Thu Nov 14, 2013 11:58 pm

I tried to get a tubal when I was 19 and was told I couldn't have one till I was 25 AND had two children. The pill failed, so I had my first one on my 21st birthday. We decided when I was 25 that I would have a tubal at 26 unless I was pregnant so my eldest wouldn't be an only child but, at 26, I'd have the tubal whether preggo or not. I was pregnant and fighting to keep the baby without dying myself, so we had a second then I had my tubes tied the next day. Two girls and no even considering trying for a boy. f**k it. I was done. I did my uterine duty for god, country and man. I was done.

Fact is, and as my girls whom I would kill and/or die for know, if I could go back in time to 19, I'd fight a helluva lot harder and even get my parents involved in getting sterilized. I didn't ever wanna be a mommy. I never liked kids. I never babysat because kids annoyed the living hell out of me. I DON"T LIKE KIDS! I DON"T LIKE BEING AROUND THEM! I DON"T LIKE HAVING THEM AROUND ME!

Thing is, I had kids and they are my responsibility and I'll be damned if I won't honor that. Sides, I really do love mine. Just f**k with them even in the slightest and you will find out how much. Still, if I could go back and change things, I would.

by **Winchester** » Fri Nov 15, 2013 12:55 am

by **Winchester** » Fri Nov 15, 2013 1:10 am

by **Spider** » Fri Nov 15, 2013 4:29 am

by **Mr.Bill** » Fri Nov 15, 2013 5:36 am

I have 4.. All girls, so I have no opinion on this subject.

by **Bauce** » Fri Nov 15, 2013 6:41 am

If I did want to be a parent, I'd still be hesitant because I might have a daughter. I don't know how any man could want a daughter. Turns the nicest guy into a lunatic when the teenage years come around.