by nordictruce » Wed Jul 30, 2014 12:33 pm
you're proving my point for me indy.
the point is, his comments had nothing whatsoever to do with rape, rape culture, blaming the victim or anything. All he said is that not every man you meet, is going to turn the other cheek when provoked. Some men will hit you if you give them a reason to hit you, so be careful, not every guy is going to be the bigger man and turn away. NOthing whatsoever to do with blaming the victum, or slut shaming, or sex in general.
The point is, everyone made it about sex slut shaming or what not.
I had a woman throw a glass vase at my head and i required 10 stitches about what, 8 years ago when I broke up with her. That's what he means by "provoke". some men won't do what i did and just leave. Some men in that instance will beat the living shit out of that girl and she had it coming. But I already knew what would happen if a call got made to the police about a blac man hitting a white woman, so I dropped it and just went to the hospital.
HE no where nor is anyone implying that a woman wearing a mini skirt is "asking for it". SHE said that. He is saying that, a woman who halls off and slaps a man 4 inches taller and 50 pounds bigger than her, because she doesn't expect him to do anything in return, is not very prudent.
This must be a culture thing, becuase black women hit the shit out of black men. I thin that's why white people are assuming this is a sex thing, but it isn't. It's a don't throw a rock through my car window and expect to not get your ass whipped thing lol. I think that's the difference.