Advice for Girls

[eynon81]

[spacemonkey]

[nordictruce]

Red Pillers get an extremely bad rep, I'd be divorced wihttp://www.political-crossfire.com/st ... mail.gifth a kid paying alimony to a woman who was a straight up gold digger if not for the red pillers on the internet.


There are a lot of men, like myself, who did not grow up with a father figure around and weren't given the low down on women. How to deal with them successfully.


And the thing is, it's like politics is that being centric really now means being leftist. Feminism is the new normal. Women can't do wrong.


This shit, literally just happened. I know a woman who used to live next door to me. she has no job. She won't get a job. She got the bright idea to hit me up for some money. I mean she's cute of course I let her in lol. The second she gets in my house she starts talking about all these bills that she needs paid and i tell her i'm busy and she has to go. She then tells me point blank shes not leaving my house until i give her some money. i call the police. She leaves, 20 mins later a brick is thrown through my window.

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Where are the people telling women to stop using their sex appeal to get ahead? Stop trying to use men? Get a f**k job? Stop throwing bricks through men's windows? She knows i'm not going to call the police she's got kids and i'm not going to put their mom in jail or get her in trouble. That's the problem. .


Women are out of f**k control. There I said it. Allowed to make stupid decisions after stupid decision, act stupid, do stupid shit, take no responsibility for their actions becuase some white knight is always there to tell them that they are perfect just the way they are.


I would never consider dating a woman who didn't come from a 2 parent family household.

[exploited]

Okay, but you know that is nonsense right? Nobody teaches their kid how to pick up women. Well, maybe not nobody, but the vast majority of households don't do that. My father never sat down and told me "what to do." You just go out and make mistakes and learn from them. It's not hard. There is no magic to it. The idea that there is a right way to treat women is nonsense. There is a wrong way, but that tends to be the same regardless of gender - being an asshole is uncool regardless of who you re talking too.

The vast bulk of red pillers are simply making excuses for their personal failures and bad decisions. They blame women, saying they are crazy, spoiled, entitled, infected by feminism, etc. In reality, women and men are behaviourally basically the same, with more difference between personalities than gender. Some people are entitled, some are spoiled, some have unrealistic and unfair expectations - that is all there is to it. I have a feeling that red pillers lack the social skills to identify such people, end up getting involved, and then blame women as a whole for their own stupid behaviour.

Prime example - this woman who threw a brick through your window. I can absolutely guarantee that would never happen to me because I have the social skills to identify red flags and problematic behaviour. Not having a job is a big one. To let her in because she is cute is just a perfect example of your own bad decision making. You knew she was a lowlife, but she was cute, so you let her in - then you'll defend a community that criticizes women for using their looks to get things. It's an incredible amount of dissonance - you are behaving in a way that enables shitty people to be shitty, and then blaming everyone else for your problems.

I know lots of people from single parent homes who have no problems finding nice, normal people to date and have relationships with. If you seriously want to start having success with women, I suggest ditching the childish philosophy you subscribe too, take a look in the mirror, and sort your own shit out. That's all there is too it.

[Saz]

[Spider]

[The Comrade]

[nordictruce]

i knew she had motives when she showed up i'm not dumb. i didn't' expect a f**k brick in my window however.


it might be a regional thing. maybe women aren't bat shit crazy in la or ny but in arkansas man i'm done lol.

in Arkansas, being an independent woman means having your own job so you can date the guy that just got out of federal prison while he beats the shit out of you with your kids watching.

i mean, i'm not a prick. This girls mom's house burned down last year, i donated a washer and dryer i had in storage to her for free. no motives, just doing what good people do. no shits given, take the brick threw the window lol.


i did live in sarasota for a while and i probably dated more women in 3 months there than i did in 10 years here. in fact i did lol. man why did i have to be born here lol

[Philly]

Stop bitching and leave. Moving to a new region is hard. I know that all too well. It's not harder than living life day in and day out in a place that you hate.

[Gnostic]