I would also like to say that i do not agree with my husband. although having sex with my husband is better than having it with anyone else because he is my husband, i do not look at sex as anything more than a physical act. i think you can have a healthy sex life without being in love. that probably sounds funny that my husband and i have sex for different reasons but it works fine for us

next, i HATE when anyone cheats and claims "oh well we were never meant to be monogamous". Cheating can happen for a number of reasons. If you are in a committed monogamous relationship and want to have sex with someone else, that is something you need to discuss with your partner and talk about. My husband and i have the most trusting relationship. If i ever was dangerously attracted to someone, i would let him know, and i have. The same with him. I know my husband would never cheat on me because we value our relationship and our trust and if he came to me one day and said he wanted to have sex with someone else, we would talk about it and who knows maybe i would let him! but people DO NOT CHEAT BECAUSE ITS IN THEIR NATURE TO BANG EVERYONE. that just annoys the hell out of me.
in response to the government acknowledging these kinds of relationships i think they should. BUT i dont think they should get any government should give any breaks. i dont think anyone should get government breaks because of their relationship status. but you should be able to apply for insurance as married and all that good stuff just no government help. and no welfare because you have multiple baby mommas to take care of.